Finding meaning in a world of chaos

I won’t hide under the shallow layers of positive quotes.

I know i’m speaking on behalf of many persons who tries hiding into doubtful meanings in this world of Chaos

By nature I observe a lot ,being a musician sensing subtle emotions ….also by analysing the Minds of people and trying to observe “not identify” the nature of the mind, I see people around me talking ,speaking, acting, behaving without any clue of what they are doing.

Through years of practicing life coaching, mentoring I have been listening to people which many of you would think they are extremely positive and by seeing their profile on Facebook, you would think that their lives are amazing.

sadly ..me and many colleagues of my profession or similar like psychologists, know the real truth within the psyche of the human being especially nowadays

or let me say after the rise of the digital age and the fake connection of people ,we are losing emotions and feelings day after day.

But many of us in the mental health profession,or “peace” guiders enjoy the rise of sadness and are completly off track..

Instead of acting upon these dark minds and thriving to make a change, some thrive to keep their clients in the dark to prosper financially , after all …these “helpers” have no meaning also.

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Notice how religious talks are rising again which is not wrong but why now ?and massively !

I will tell you why: it’s because the human being is facing a dead-end in his meaning of life…

when you try to see the world through the lens of your mobile phone, visiting countries ,talking to unknown people not knowing the difference between a robot and human being,

chatting endlessly with fake friends creating new ones blocking other ones.. thus… deep down in your self you know that the individual has no more meaning (including your self)

which is the basic reason of this article..

Religions ,priests, dogmas, afterlife talks, are rising to try to give us a meaning by going back to our ancestors to solicit our being for finding a meaning after this physical life,

because apparently this “modern/hectic/business life is no longer giving a passion or a reason to continue living it with some joy or happiness,

or let me say it in another way : with no more patience and thrill to discover new things.

Trying to live to feed our kids in order for them to raise their own kids and both are speeding up a chaotic life where running blindly is all what is left, in other words “Death”

Where is the beauty in all that?

you may hide and act positively and try to behave as if nothing is wrong ,

but deep inside your soul is dark and you know there is no way out unless a real meaning emerge from this chaos.

We’re indeed standing at the junction of two Roads :

one that is completely obscure, dark and meaningless

and another one which may still give us a chance by asking deeply these questions :

who am I why ?

Why did I came on Earth,

what is the true meaning behind this life ?

what are the Hidden Secrets of this life?

and yes .. religions can give you partially many answers because all this divine wisdom from our Masters and Prophets left a trace so we can follow it .

that doesn’t mean that religion speaks full truth and has the only solution .

but it’s inviting you again to break down this horizontal timeline which is called birth and death and find the crosspoint,

the cross of Resurrection which is called the vertical line cracking this horizontal line ..,

this symbol of Jesus crucifixion is the Eternal Life and by Symbol I’m speaking now psychologically so that many people can understand my point ,

so kindly do not understand my statement as a denial of the Christian Faith ..that’s not the subject for now!

Once we find a meaning in a timeless zone , clarity will shine,and meaning will rise .

all we have to do is to slow down and watch out from this prison called “social media”, which myself and millions have been trapped in it .

I invite you all to break from this prison because soon.. and by soon I mean within 10 or 20 years statistics are showing that the ratio of suicide will rise among teenagers by 20 to 30%.

you can check the facts!!!…

indeed we missed the ancient times where meaning ,joy ,bliss were not far away from our Shadows ,they were actually our Shadows !

let me list a set of statements that can help us regain some clarity and passion in our hearts:

1- visit a friend don’t chat with him

2- care once a week about helping a person

3-practice a form of ritual spiritually and love yourself.

4- remember to visit your parents ask about them .

5-spend quality time with your children

6-enjoy being in nature

7-open a book not a tablet

8-smile as much as you can and observe the wonders of this life

9- live your day as if it’s your last one.

10- try to reconciliate people with love interfere where there is hatred

11- remember that all your loved ones will be missed one day,..or gone.

12- don’t take life too seriously

13- enjoy artistic value, build your inner soul

14- love God ,life and the universe as you never did

15-finish your day with gratitude

your life is a meaning into itself

,it’s a meaning for all beings not just humans, even to nature.

when we all act and think in this way ,the word meaning will dissolve and “bliss” will reside !!..

love to all,peace and blessings

Jad mehanna

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Lonely In A World Of Friends ? 

Hi There,

The title shocked you, or else you would’nt be reading it.

Who can imagine ,that among thousand of “friends” followers, fans… well…no one is there.

As soon as the casual quote,joke , news sharing finishes…

No one seems to care.

You’re faced with a brb.

100 200 1000.3000 5000 (friends adding)

Real friends =20 10 5 3  2

That s how the virtual number of friends is stacking up. While numbers of close people keeps shrinking..

Let me tell you..  stop discussing matters over the phone.

At least if you hear someone s soul, go sit with him.

Hide or unhide your blue ticks,

Put any status.

But remember that someone is a human being from flesh and bones , has a soul too.

Reduce your sympathy emoticons.

Go give a real hug.

Open up.

Pretty soon , there won t be anyone there .

Just dead souls , typing characters.

Life is worth living , feeling , touching ,loving.

Jad Mehanna

Www.jadmehannacoaching.com

Why STRESS  is rapidly Rising ?

Stress is definitely growing not only due to economic turmoil.

Although it s a major reason, old jobs are vanishing, new jobs are being created through only digital media, which is creating a ferocious competition and creating both legal and illegal ways of business.

Businesses, services, selling products, news and media, are not anymore a legit way to compare between professionals and scammers

.stress is rising among this crazy domain.

But my point here is to spot light on another major issue :

De-socializing! And mistrust between humans, and the ability of switching friends in a virtual world confused with a real world.

People are loosing compassion, love, patience, aggressiveness is rising because everyone thinks he/she has a secluded world full of friends .

We can turn down friends, speak unethically towards each others….why?

The “screen” of hatred is protecting us.

It takes few buttons to judge, criticize and even curse each other concerning any topic.

Politics, religions, science, business…

Shallow minds are on the rise, our ability to read intellectual articles is decreasing rapidly.

 The fantasy of scrolling down the FB or tweets and hearing all, seeing all, merging with all, knowing each topic in the world, created in us empty beings with sick shadows.

It literally sucked all the love among human beings.

As a stress therapist I see it rising in a dangerous way.

Statistics showing that 30  to 50% of people are living on drugs, addictions, using anti-depressant and other.

Solution:

Daring to leave your phone 2 days without any internet connection.

Turn off wifi and mobile data!!

If u use it for your business it s different.

But being bombarded daily by useless chats will destroy your life. And it is already … !

Each week choose 1 or 2 days to switch off from  this fantasy world.

Try to call someone using that green dial pad?! If you remember it !!??

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Walk more in nature, pray, meditate,

Go visit a friend.

Become a human once again,!!

I’m trying to be optimistic but the truth is: what s coming in the next few years will shock us all! 

It s the era of new forms of humans, new forms of android, robots that will take over. 

I m not being delusional creating sci-fi stories!

But i see them being constructed.

Dig little bit and recognize that the era of humans started the reverse count down…!

Drop your phones just few days a week..maybe there will be a chance 

Until then,  our new master is called :

“STRESS”.


Jad Mehanna

Mentor/coach

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The River Of Life -excerpt 2- who are we

You are not a lawyer!

You are not a doctor!

You are not a Christian!

You are not Muslim!

You are not a Hindu!

Let us try to understand what I mean.

We usually introduce ourselves or others by saying: “This is Dr. Robert. He is a lawyer”. Most of the time we all like to use labels and titles to describe who a person really is. 

From our early years of education, we start associating people with their position, their titles or status.  Slowly but surely, we then become conditioned and start to position ourselves in comparison to others.

We tend to respect people who have important positions, such as managers, C.E.Os, politicians, or heads of various organizations.

Every young boy or girl, every human being has a unique mind, brain, and heart, yet we are still very similar to any other human being.

Studying something in particular, acquiring a skill, working under a professional name, they all add to our ‘mind and intellect’. 

However, it is important not to let these things imprison you or make you feel afraid or intimidated by others.   


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Let’s take some time and try to really feel the meaning of my next words:

“I AM”.

Take a moment now to reflect on what it means to be complete.

Then you can go on and say: “I have studied X and practiced that profession as a career”. 

Outside my work, I simply “AM”. 

I look at my fellow human being with the same openness I had when I came out of the womb. 

You are not “Jad”, you are not any “one”, “title”, “persona”, or “follower”.

You simply ARE.

You can then continue the discussion with what you have studied and what you currently do (I studied medicine, I practice therapy, I pray to…etc).

This new perception will allow you to go deeper within yourself, detach yourself from titles, and allow yourself to reconnect with your core being – your pure self. 

Simply imagine it as if you would be wearing a robe that is called “a lawyer”, “a therapist”, or “an engineer”. It’s only a piece of garment!

Take it off when you’re not using it.

It will take a while for this shift to sink in but when it does, you will be in harmony with the river of life.
2. Where do you come from? 

Who are you?

From the moment the semen came into existence to this day when I am typing and you are reading this, I have been through a few miraculous changes. We often forget how amazing, magical, and spiritual these changes are.

However, if we keep on going in reverse, we will then reach a universal truth: 

We each come from our parents, our parents come from their parents, and this goes on and on until we are faced with the dilemma of Adam and Eve. If we keep going backwards, we will then see that it seems like it all comes from LIGHT. This fits in nicely with the Big Bang theory and many others. 

According to quantum physics, we know that the dissection of electrons will only lead us to LIGHT.

Everything is light! 

We are made of light!

You can’t be anything but a pure being coming from ONE SOURCE having a physical experience.

Many have used the phrase: ‘You are a spiritual being having a physical experience’, and it seems to resonate very well with people.

I’m sure most of you can understand why.

Now, let me ask you a question.

Is the little kid that you once were, that 5 year old playing outside in the garden – is he still you? Will you look the same when you are 80 years old?

Everything changes, therefore no one can define you according to your shape or appearance. Nothing is permanent.

But there must be something unchangeable, because you have known YOU since birth and throughout your life there was a constant notion of your “self”.

That is YOU.

You are the presence, the unchangeable, the one who can watch your body changing throughout years. The one who can observe your own thoughts, ideas and interactions. 

Once you start understanding this truth and stop identifying yourself with your body, your mind, your profession or the society you happen to live in – you will find your kingdom.

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Link from my store (pdf+8 meditative music tracks).

Great for stress.healing.insomnia.

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How can i guide you out of stress through many systems.

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Stress is an enourmous subject, fact and deceiving evil! That can sabotage your life!
From a low mood refusing to go out, belly aches symptoms, panic attacks
Fear, depression, anxiety..death! (The lead root of anxiety and fear)
Obsession, procrastination…

Who started these? Did it come all from the mind? Most probably yes,
Did some physical organic ailment or inflamation started a chronic pain that triggers brain hormones to reduce good feelings?
Maybe…

Is it a past trauma , a past incident that stayed subconsciously in your head?..never under estimate the power of the mind.

Your brother, father, mother, sister, spouse have a dominant character that are influencing u ,and u dont know what to do?

Relation ship sabotaging your daily life?
And tons and tons of problems…the results is chaos…
Stomach pain..back pain..digestion problems..insomnia (which without it no healing can begin).

I decided since 10 years to start a road un orthodox..while.studying academically and through seminars and experiencing and devoring books..the road to healing and changing my life.

I experienced all that..besides being a music composer…it leaded me to understand and feel more each note i create and it s image or emotions….hence what are these emotions??….and the road started.

To sum it up..i noticed the western medical system psychiatrists, psychologist have part of the truth, dr s do have too, chemistry and pharmaceuticul drugs may have part of it…but is it the way to healing from inside.?.or to.shut the symptoms.?

When we start realising that there is a being behind the one who changes names..mr mrs dr ..teacher..wife..husband..titles and labels..sad..confused…happy..angry.there is someone who doesnt change who can only know  bliss.

But it took you years to lay all the mud over your being..won t u give it few months to take it off.?
I feel so hurt and bad when i see beings being led to wrong roads and paths…by doctors who are in rush to see the next patient and earn the cash.
Helping..guiding..giving..caring are one of the roles of a healer.

I studied clinical nutrition, acupressure, life and stress coaching, meditation.
So i can observe..feel and listen to the person s feelings and needs.
And when i can t i don t keep on..i know how to guide him to a specific dr who may help.him in a specific point in one session before we continue.

My mission is to help persons, to make a full transformation
By exercices, mentally, and gently physically, weekly sheets, music therapy,proper.nutrition and body treatment.

You are one.! BODY..MIND…SOUL.  not separate
The more we separate..the more u ll.need 30.dr s and endless medicines and u won t discover your true self that can heal it self.

Achieving a plan for.your life is my task and your task.
I can keep holding your hand..until you will walk alone..with no one s help.except god ‘s.

For more info check.
Www.jadmehannacoaching.com
Www.facebook.com/stress.coach1

Jad mehanna
76 606410

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How can i guide you out of stress through many systems.

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Stress is an enourmous subjects, facts and deceiving evil! That can sabotage your life!
From a low mood refusing to go out, belly aches symptoms, panic attacks
Fear, depression, anxiety..death! (The lead root of anxiety and fear)
Obsession, procrastination…

Who started these? Did it come all from the mind? Most probably yes,
Did some physical organic ailment or inflamation started a chronic pain that triggers brain hormones to reduce good feelings?
Maybe…

Is it a past trauma , a past incident that stayed subconsciously in your head?..never under estimate the power of the mind.

Your brother, father, mother, sister, spouse have a dominant character that are dominant and u dont know what to do?

Relation ship sabotaging your daily life?
And tons and tons of problems…the results is chaos…
Stomach pain..back pain..digestion problem..insomnia (which without it no healing can begin).

I decided since 10 years to start a road un orthodox..while.studying academically and through seminars and experiencing and devoring books..the road to healing and changing my life.

I experienced all that..besides being a music composer…led me to understand and feel more each note i create and it s image or emotions….hence what are these emotions??….and the road started.

To sum it up..i noticed the western medical system psychiatrists, psychologist have part of the truth, dr s do have too, chemistry and pharmaceuticeul drugs may have part of it…but is it the way to healing from inside..or to.shut the symptoms.

When we start realising that there is a being behind the one who changes names..mr mrs dr ..teacher..wife..husband..titles and labels..sad..confused…happy..angry…there is someone who doesnt change who can only know  bliss.

But it took you years to lay all the mud over your being..won t u give it few months to take it off.
I feel so hurt and bad when i see beings being led to wrong roads and paths…by doctors who ar in rush to see the next patient and earn the cash.
Helping..gi ing..guiding..caring is one of the roles of a healer.

I studied clinical nutrition, acupressure, life and stress coaching, meditation.
So i can observe..feel and listen to the person s feelings and needs.
And when i can t i don t keep on..i know how to guide him to a specific dr who may help.him in a specific point in one session before we continue.

My mission is to help persons, to make a full transformation
By exercices, mentally, and gently physically, weekly sheets, music therapy,proper.nutrition and body treatment.

You are one.! BODY..MIND…SOUL.  not separate
Fhe more we separate..the more u ll.need 30.dr s and endless medicines and unwon t discover your true self that it can heal.your self.

Acheiving a plan for.your life is my task and your task.
I.can keep grasping your hand..until you will walk alone..with no one help.except god ‘s.

For more info check.
Www.jad-lifecoaching.com
Www.facebook.com/stress.coach1

Jad mehanna
76 606410

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Chronic Pain

Dear Friends, and followers of my blog.

I would like to highlight what i discovered through my personal journey, about CHRONIC PAIN.
70% of that pain is mental and caused by Stress, anxiety, depression, fear, worry etc…
Which in turns affects our nervous system and our digestive system.

Once these 2 systems get affected u can expect a “domino effect” of countless symptoms and “indirect” illness or diseases.

30% of diseases and pain may come from external invadors such as toxins, bacteria, virus, or sever injuries/accidents  , or from weak genetics.

But fortunately most of the external factors can be healed in  big ratios!

The ones that cannot be healed easily and accompanies us for most of our lives are “self created DIS-“EASE”.

Something constantly stayed long enough… irritating our minds/thoughts/behaviour/emotions to a degree that it became physical.

But it also can be healed, it needs more will, diligence, and re programming of your whole system.

As the nervous system and digestive can be triggered easily from our minds, one should always start fixing his path to healing from the source it self, IN PARALLEL with re establishing a great nutritional program, in case his aches were mostly reflecting in his belly area( constipation, gerd, colitis,abdominal pains, etc…)
Or IN PARALLEL with a healty lower and upper back therapies.
Cause that s also one of the most areas affected by STRESS/THOUGHTS.

When i work with my clients as a life, health and stress coach.
1-I make sure my clients were clinically diagnosed and have nothing serious. (Yet…)
2-as a nutrition consultant I make sure their system is detoxed ,because an unhealthy digestive system or a malfunctioning one cannot allow any mental peace.   Brain and guts are linked more than we can imagine.
3-unleashing negative emotions, by talk, therapy, mental exercices is crucial.
4-re inserting thoughts , or re training our mind to build Healthy thinking patterns, now can take it s role.
5-a minor or a major physical program is a must to become HUMAN again.

6-while the clients starts getting results, then it s necessary to plan for goals and re fix their life plans,  as this will move positively their healing process.

7-it s time for each according to his religion or spiritual practise to start surrendering to God, life, existence…
It s surrendering and having faith in the universe..not begging from a magician. (That ‘s why most people who pray without realising what life it self gave them as tools to heal, won’t allow them to reach efficient results)

It seems much, but it s not!
It s a progressive way to get rid once and for all from all chronic pain.
It is MUCH if the pain stays for decades!.

But a passion to embrace life, deserves true healing.

Blessings to all!

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