Finding meaning in a world of chaos

I won’t hide under the shallow layers of positive quotes.

I know i’m speaking on behalf of many persons who tries hiding into doubtful meanings in this world of Chaos

By nature I observe a lot ,being a musician sensing subtle emotions ….also by analysing the Minds of people and trying to observe “not identify” the nature of the mind, I see people around me talking ,speaking, acting, behaving without any clue of what they are doing.

Through years of practicing life coaching, mentoring I have been listening to people which many of you would think they are extremely positive and by seeing their profile on Facebook, you would think that their lives are amazing.

sadly ..me and many colleagues of my profession or similar like psychologists, know the real truth within the psyche of the human being especially nowadays

or let me say after the rise of the digital age and the fake connection of people ,we are losing emotions and feelings day after day.

But many of us in the mental health profession,or “peace” guiders enjoy the rise of sadness and are completly off track..

Instead of acting upon these dark minds and thriving to make a change, some thrive to keep their clients in the dark to prosper financially , after all …these “helpers” have no meaning also.

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Notice how religious talks are rising again which is not wrong but why now ?and massively !

I will tell you why: it’s because the human being is facing a dead-end in his meaning of life…

when you try to see the world through the lens of your mobile phone, visiting countries ,talking to unknown people not knowing the difference between a robot and human being,

chatting endlessly with fake friends creating new ones blocking other ones.. thus… deep down in your self you know that the individual has no more meaning (including your self)

which is the basic reason of this article..

Religions ,priests, dogmas, afterlife talks, are rising to try to give us a meaning by going back to our ancestors to solicit our being for finding a meaning after this physical life,

because apparently this “modern/hectic/business life is no longer giving a passion or a reason to continue living it with some joy or happiness,

or let me say it in another way : with no more patience and thrill to discover new things.

Trying to live to feed our kids in order for them to raise their own kids and both are speeding up a chaotic life where running blindly is all what is left, in other words “Death”

Where is the beauty in all that?

you may hide and act positively and try to behave as if nothing is wrong ,

but deep inside your soul is dark and you know there is no way out unless a real meaning emerge from this chaos.

We’re indeed standing at the junction of two Roads :

one that is completely obscure, dark and meaningless

and another one which may still give us a chance by asking deeply these questions :

who am I why ?

Why did I came on Earth,

what is the true meaning behind this life ?

what are the Hidden Secrets of this life?

and yes .. religions can give you partially many answers because all this divine wisdom from our Masters and Prophets left a trace so we can follow it .

that doesn’t mean that religion speaks full truth and has the only solution .

but it’s inviting you again to break down this horizontal timeline which is called birth and death and find the crosspoint,

the cross of Resurrection which is called the vertical line cracking this horizontal line ..,

this symbol of Jesus crucifixion is the Eternal Life and by Symbol I’m speaking now psychologically so that many people can understand my point ,

so kindly do not understand my statement as a denial of the Christian Faith ..that’s not the subject for now!

Once we find a meaning in a timeless zone , clarity will shine,and meaning will rise .

all we have to do is to slow down and watch out from this prison called “social media”, which myself and millions have been trapped in it .

I invite you all to break from this prison because soon.. and by soon I mean within 10 or 20 years statistics are showing that the ratio of suicide will rise among teenagers by 20 to 30%.

you can check the facts!!!…

indeed we missed the ancient times where meaning ,joy ,bliss were not far away from our Shadows ,they were actually our Shadows !

let me list a set of statements that can help us regain some clarity and passion in our hearts:

1- visit a friend don’t chat with him

2- care once a week about helping a person

3-practice a form of ritual spiritually and love yourself.

4- remember to visit your parents ask about them .

5-spend quality time with your children

6-enjoy being in nature

7-open a book not a tablet

8-smile as much as you can and observe the wonders of this life

9- live your day as if it’s your last one.

10- try to reconciliate people with love interfere where there is hatred

11- remember that all your loved ones will be missed one day,..or gone.

12- don’t take life too seriously

13- enjoy artistic value, build your inner soul

14- love God ,life and the universe as you never did

15-finish your day with gratitude

your life is a meaning into itself

,it’s a meaning for all beings not just humans, even to nature.

when we all act and think in this way ,the word meaning will dissolve and “bliss” will reside !!..

love to all,peace and blessings

Jad mehanna

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Why STRESS  is rapidly Rising ?

Stress is definitely growing not only due to economic turmoil.

Although it s a major reason, old jobs are vanishing, new jobs are being created through only digital media, which is creating a ferocious competition and creating both legal and illegal ways of business.

Businesses, services, selling products, news and media, are not anymore a legit way to compare between professionals and scammers

.stress is rising among this crazy domain.

But my point here is to spot light on another major issue :

De-socializing! And mistrust between humans, and the ability of switching friends in a virtual world confused with a real world.

People are loosing compassion, love, patience, aggressiveness is rising because everyone thinks he/she has a secluded world full of friends .

We can turn down friends, speak unethically towards each others….why?

The “screen” of hatred is protecting us.

It takes few buttons to judge, criticize and even curse each other concerning any topic.

Politics, religions, science, business…

Shallow minds are on the rise, our ability to read intellectual articles is decreasing rapidly.

 The fantasy of scrolling down the FB or tweets and hearing all, seeing all, merging with all, knowing each topic in the world, created in us empty beings with sick shadows.

It literally sucked all the love among human beings.

As a stress therapist I see it rising in a dangerous way.

Statistics showing that 30  to 50% of people are living on drugs, addictions, using anti-depressant and other.

Solution:

Daring to leave your phone 2 days without any internet connection.

Turn off wifi and mobile data!!

If u use it for your business it s different.

But being bombarded daily by useless chats will destroy your life. And it is already … !

Each week choose 1 or 2 days to switch off from  this fantasy world.

Try to call someone using that green dial pad?! If you remember it !!??

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Walk more in nature, pray, meditate,

Go visit a friend.

Become a human once again,!!

I’m trying to be optimistic but the truth is: what s coming in the next few years will shock us all! 

It s the era of new forms of humans, new forms of android, robots that will take over. 

I m not being delusional creating sci-fi stories!

But i see them being constructed.

Dig little bit and recognize that the era of humans started the reverse count down…!

Drop your phones just few days a week..maybe there will be a chance 

Until then,  our new master is called :

“STRESS”.


Jad Mehanna

Mentor/coach

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Children

I m writing today about children, the most sacred and innocent beings.
I m a father of a 2 girls,i know exactly what it feels like.

Is there more innocent than observing children and their pure hearts…?.so clean so joyful..so authentic..

But i watch them with an observer eye…
Too bad children have to grow and adapt to all the chaos..sickness..and evil we had created.
They will grow and start asking questions:
Why people are sick..?.why some get fancy lives while others cant even put food in their mouth?

What is killing?…all that..
Because of this fast pace era…they will have to adapt  and loose quickly their innocence….what a shame!

Such pure creatures with minds that are so clean and alive…
They will be under the mercy of the society that has gone astray..blind and robotic.
Can we do something about it?
We have to undo what has been done to us first.

Unfortunately the numbers of unaware people is increasing exponantially ..
I can only see one solution:
living in new islands..keeping what humanity has acheived from goodness…
Reconnect with nature..live more at ease without the enormous tools that we have now.

It may be the only solution in allowing people to continue living as they are..or choose a slower pace..exploring and enjoying life without this lust to live in the moon..or mars..to become robots..to conquere…to make wars.

Children are a blessing…we should learn from them…
Tears comes to my eyes..when seeing angels..that most probably will loose it all…and suffer from what life has become..

Let s wake up all..and try to create societies where a peacful life can be experienced…

With love
Jad